UPDATE: dome light and chime issue fixed.
please dont bother asking how cause it is far too embarrassing to post.
park lights still a legitimate issue tho. i think
UPDATE 2: trying to explore all options i went back in and started checking voltage at the harnesses in the stereo/alarm area. everything seemed fairly normal with the exception that the main acc hot shows hot with the switch on but with the switch off it shows to have a negative. test light shows both. this doesnt seem normal cause all other points positive wires arent doing this. maybe this means nothing. opinions are appreciated.